punishing inner voice of j

Lucky or not, I do not deserve punishment EVER. Not for mistakes, not for mistakes, not for having it easy. I have a mean inner voice of my dad that wants to give me punishment for good things and also if I make a mistake or don't do what he likes and decide for myself. His voice blames me and doesn't want me to have my true power or self or opinion and he wants me to submit, which is always WRONG. I deserve to live without guilt or without forcing me to mold and without explaining my opinions and I deserve to live without a mask and without playing or pleasing or thinking about my parents. I deserve to live without asking for permission for my truths or opinions from anyone.

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