ego games

-saivartelu
-alistus tms kun I know better
-toisten energioiden sisää päästö
-vakavan esitys tai tyhmän tai pelokkaan esitys tai Cord cutting välttö
-overanalysis tai se kun silleee nöyttelen ja esitän mulle ja juoksen mua karkuun ja epäilen
-kun ahmin ja väitän et jotkut jotka ei liene syyttäis mua ja sit ne loputtomat syytös kierteet ja therapeak juttu (hän sieltä hyväksyntää ja esitän dumb)
-all or nothing 
-thoughtform käyttö
-et ei käsittele late traumoja
-avuttoman esitys
-esitän vanhempia enemmän ku mitää ja nii paljo kun mahdollista
-syytän sielua egoistiseks
-väitän toista henkilöä mun sielukas 
-epäilyjutut turhasta
-saanan esitys,Arjan esitys, äidin esitys, avuttoman esitys
-avuttoman esitys
-biisirn tulkinta sillee vasten mun tahtoa
-se kun selitän inkalle 
-loukkaannus kun joku ei tajua
-takertuminen sanoihin ja loukkaannus ja avuttomuus
 -obsessiot ja saivartelu ja se kun takerrun siihen mikä is bad for me
-arja hamonen approval seeking

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